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We're desperate for a family of our own, but I can't climax during sex

Nov 2, 2021

DEAR DEIDRE: WE are longing to start a family but as I can’t climax with my partner, I don’t think she will ever conceive.

Sex has always been a struggle for me. Sometimes it’s over too quickly – before we’ve even got close – and sometimes I can’t get an erection.


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The problem now is that I can’t ejaculate without using my hands to get close.
Then we try to have intercourse but it’s a bit hit-and-miss.

I feel like such a letdown.

My girlfriend laughs about it and says: “Don’t worry – next time.”

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But I’m scared she’ll soon get fed up and want to find somebody who can give her the baby she wants.

We are both 36.

DEIDRE SAYS:  If you were brought up in a household where sex was a taboo subject or you were made to feel it was dirty, that can cause a mental block that prevents you from enjoying sex.

Take your time with foreplay and make sure your girlfriend is fully aroused before intercourse. Show her what you enjoy too.

That way you will be fully prepared for sex.

My support pack titled Man Who Can’t Climax offers lots of advice.

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